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Monday, September 16, 2013

Speedway High School Class of 1983 30th Reunion Memorial Tribute/Invocation 9/14/13

TO ANY READERS: This was a memorial tribute & invocation I was asked to write & give for our 30th reunion. I'm not sure why such a solemn task was entrusted to me? I guess that's what can happen when people drink at organizational meetings. I thought people that weren't there might like to read it.  As always, thanks for stopping by.

SHS  30th REUNION TRIBUTE/INVOCATION/PRAYER

NOTE TO SELF:

Welcome Everyone & Acknowledge US Military Vets (CLASSMATES & SPOUSES, DATES, SERVERS, etc.)-

 

Remembering our classmates:

·         Kip Armstrong

·         Eddie Bodimer

·         Kenny Bruner

·         Doug Dean

·         Paul Dinkel

·         Brad Foster

·         Lisa Fritch

·         Bob Howard

·         Rob Jones

·         Anthony Pardue

·         Pam Thomas

 

(Moment of Silence)

           

            Their absence saddens us, but we’re here for the magic of memories.  Hopefully, we can remember them sans the pain of loss. May we find solace when we remember them and when we remember how much they enriched our lives. They were our friends, classmates, teammates, fellow performing artists, and they were more.

 I would not be so arrogant as to presume that I could adequately speak to their memories for all of you here, but I humbly ask that tonight we do speak of them. Let them live again in our memories, feel them in your smiles, speak their names and let them hear our laughter. Those things are the essence of life and that is where our good friends dwell. We should all be so lucky someday.

 

Remembering our teachers:

·         -Mrs. Leah Abrams

·         -Mr. John Bainbridge

·         -Mr. Paul Guernsey

·         -Mrs. Phyllis Hughes-Stevens

·         -Mr. Morris Pollard & Mrs. Bonnie Pollard

·         -Mr. James Rollins

·         -Mr. Clyde Sallee

·         -Mr. Robert Wise

 

(Moment of Silence)

            I would like to think that most of us view good teachers as special people—probably because I’m a teacher.

Currently, I teach juniors & seniors at Lawrence Central High School-GO BEARS! Yes, I’m one of those obnoxious people that won’t allow you to start a sentence with a conjunction or end a sentence with a preposition because those are things that I will not ‘up with put.’

Please forgive me, but this tribute will be a bit more subjective and personal. Early in my career, I had the honor of working with most of these very special people. And while I may have allowed myself to think of some of them as colleagues, thinking of me as one of their peers is unconscionable.

I hope you’ll forgive me for being  presumptuous, but I decided to write a brief thank you letter to our former mentors on behalf of the class of 1983.

 

Dear Teachers,

          We hope you look down upon us tonight and that you are able to see some of the fruits of your labors. I think you all deserve at least that much. I did not personally benefit from each of you as teachers, but as I reflect back on my years at Speedway, my teaching career and my overall existence. I know that you contributed to helping all of us along on our respective life journeys.

          To Mrs. Abrams, those two summers I worked with you at the high school were great. You taught me about how to show “tough love” with kids who often need it the most especially when they deserve it the least.

          To Mr. Bainbridge, thank you for encouraging me both as a student and as an employee at SHS. You were a great boss and  a good friend.

          To Mr. Guernsey, years ago you were on the cutting edge with computer math—what Doug Linville affectionately called “Moo Math with Mr. Guernsey.”

          To Mrs. Hughes, another English teacher, thank you for putting up with me as a truly sophomoric sophomore in study hall. I’ve used that same 1,000 yard stare you used on me many, many times with my own students.

          To Mr. Pollard, thanks for all the “ornery” jokes at lunch & making a call to one of the deans at IUPUI so that I could take a summer class that would keep me on my academic schedule. Forgive me, Morris, I don’t have the time or words to thank you adequately for all the other things you did for me and my classmates. Give Bonnie a hug for me.

          To Mr. Rollins, thanks for giving me my first real teaching job at the old Lincoln Middle School & for believing in me too—it meant a lot. I wish you could have heard all the people at your funeral services that said they didn’t always like you, but they were grateful to have known you, play for you or have been taught by you.

          To Mr. Sallee, who like Mr. Pollard was a member of the Greatest Generation.  We thank you for your long years of service and for making Coach Taphorn end practice at a decent hour.

          To Mr. Wise, thanks for teaching me that kindness, compassion and a love for music & the arts were the greatest of strengths. I doubt that I will ever meet anyone that has a more gentle soul.

          We hope you’re all listening tonight and thanks for all the time you spent seeking to  understand teenagers. I know it wasn’t always easy or fun, but we thank you for doing it with style and grace.

 

Sincerely,

 

The Class of 1983

 

 

INVOCATION: (please join me in giving thanks)



Heavenly Father, we thank you for this night of reunion in a place that honors military service. We ask that you bless all former & current military personnel. Please also bless all here & the hands that have prepared this food along with those that will be taking care of us tonight. May the food nourish our bodies and may the drinks refresh our spirits. Finally, Heavenly Father, please continue to watch over us & bless our absent friends—those who could not join us & those who dwell in your house. In your name we pray. AMEN